I can get the "someone has a crush on you" IM up to a dozen times a day. What is causing this and how can I make it stop? I dont remember if there is a way on aim to block anyone thats not in your list already but even if you did how can someone msg you and get on your list thats a friend that way?

I know that there is some sort of way to block receiving messages from anyone not on your buddy list, so you could try that out. Should that not be something you want to do, I think there's also a way to make it so you have to get a prompt message before accepting a message. Let me know if you can get something worked out!